We recommend for starters to use a simple anal toy like a few inches butt plug or anal beads.

A beginner should first determine the use of small size anal toys. Later on, one can move to a larger size.

No, never use the anal toys as they are intended for anal play only as they are built with a flared base to avoid disappearing entirely inside the body.

 If sharing, please always use a condom on the toy and clean it thoroughly between uses to maintain hygiene.

Yes, you can, but you need to get your partner's consent. This will increase your mutual trust and sexual experience.